The bachelorette party is always a good time, but not without a little controversy. Give your maid of honor and bridesmaids ideas on how you want your bachelorette party to go. Remember that a bachelorette party needn't be a raunchy celebration with strippers and alcohol if that's not what you want. A sophisticated dinner out with your gal pals is a great alternative. Whatever your bachelorette party wishes are, share them with the party planner. Then you can ensure that you will be able to relax and enjoy your party.